Most Asked Relationship Compatibility Questions Answered

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Most Asked Relationship Compatibility Questions Answered - By: Alexander Stern, Posted on: 2008-04-28

I have asked my relationship compatibility report subscriber some of the most important questions related to relationship compatibility that they would like to have answered. I have had a lot or responses with some very important questions people have on relationships in general and relationship compatibility in particular. Let me answer 3 more from the most frequent questions here.

1. Can relationship compatibility be improved?

I say - greatly! What IS a relationship compatibility? What does a couple want to know when asking if they are compatible? As far as I understand, they want to understand and maybe even predict if they would survive as a couple for a long time having great time together most of it.

This survival is based first of all on a thorough understanding of each other! And understanding means agreements on certain important things with compromises on many of less important ones. Then comes both physical and spiritual attraction to each other and finally - constant and sincere communication.

Provided these components are in place, relationships can last forever.

2. How to build a warm relationship and also have a career?

I believe, that deep in your heart you know the truth: you have to wisely compromise in order to play on many playgrounds at the same time.

Well, just plan your life, so that every week there is enough time both for your career and for your partner. Unless there is enough affectionate and sincere communication between you and your partner, the more chance you have to keep it going between you. Both mental and physical communication is important here. You know, touching each other and kissing and then talking about nice things and so on.

You find it hard to do it? Have you really planned your life so that you are at cause over things? Or are you just being pulled by either your boss or your partner without you really agreeing on that? Being in control over your time and life demands making things go your way and stopping playing a victim. I am sorry for being hard here, but a person can always do something about any situation provided he is willing to become a cause and not continue to agree to be a victim.

3. How not to loose myself in all the family duties over time?

I read once, that a person suffers only when he looses himself. How does one loose himself? Well, he just starts to thoroughly agree with others, without checking his personal values first.

For example, I want to play football, but my mother tells me, that football is for stupid kids. If I agree with her and stop wanting to play football just because she said so - I've lost myself and probably lost my talent in playing football, which might have led me to live a happy life, who knows?

We should always trust our own heart and make our best to base our decisions on facts we know and not on opinions of others even those close to us.

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Alexander Stern is an expert in relationship compatibility testing and improvement. Download his FREE Relationship Compatibility Report and visit the Relationship Compatibility Advice Blog