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How to Be a Jerk and Still Succeed With Women - By: Scott Patterson, Posted on: 2007-08-22

I'm sure you have seen plenty of guys who act like jerks but go home with attractive women. The trick is to be what I call a "cool jerk." These men know a secret that you just may learn a lot from to help you be the one going home with the beautiful woman.

What's the secret? Well, at some point they figured out that women are attracted to guys who effectively combine being a jerk with a funny personality.

This technique is often referred to as the cocky-funny attitude, and the idea behind it is to project confidence, a slight arrogance while at the same time displaying humor and intelligence. It is effective because you are showing women that you are an interesting person and confident in himself.

When applied correctly, this technique is extremely powerful and can make a girl attracted to you instantly. Here's how you can make the technique work for you...

First, remember to balance the cocky-funny attitude. You want a proper mix of an attitude of a jerk with a funny personality. If you act too arrogant, you will end up turning them away rather than drawing them closer. But, if you tell jokes during the entire conversation, you will look like a clown rather than a confident, interesting guy.

Just repeat to yourself that you want to be a cool jerk which you can accomplish by combining a humorous attitude with a cocky attitude.

To do this, it is important to develop a certain attitude during the conversation. The goal is to make her comfortable with you, but not completely comfortable. The goal is to make her work for your attention rather than the other way around, and this can be done by teasing her in a friendly manner.

Whenever she says something, respond with a funny comment but one that slightly mocks her. For example, if she asks for your name, tell her you can disclose that for fear of her stalking you later.

The trick is to constantly use humor to surprise her. Catch her off guard by responding to anything she says in a slightly arrogant, funny manner. Even better is to intertwine some sexual innuendos into your responses. This is a great way to build sexual tension, a great addition to chemistry.

To create the cocky-funny attitude, you need to learn to alter you behavior and mannerisms when you are talking with women. The best way to do this is to sit down and think of everything a woman might say during a conversation. Then, create some witty responses to these standard conversation topics you wrote down.

Now, your responses should not be standard. Remember, your goal is to create different responses that will catch her off guard and push you to a conversationally dominant position. The best responses are those that are humorous, slightly negative and project a sense of teasing.

This approach works because you are building your value to women you meet. By portraying a slight arrogance, you are sending the message to women that you are confident and that she must work for your attention rather than you vying for hers.

Finally, the most practical and useful piece of information I can give is to just get out there and practice!

It's all about knowing what to say in each situation you are in. Initially, it may seem against your grain to not be the "nice guy" all the time. This is why you need to practice as much as possible in order to implement the cocky jerk attitude to the point that it becomes natural.

When I suggest you practice, I am telling you to practice every change you have. Take advantage of every conversation with a woman even if you are not really interested in picking them up. You can use these times to practice for the conversations with women you are interested in picking up. Practice your responses you wrote down and see how they react. This is a good way to figure out which ones work and which ones do not.

Practicing is all about learning the art of this attitude. Soon, you will find that your interactions with women have taken a turn for the better and you will be that guy going home with the beautiful women!

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